This evening I lit this candle for my darling husband Paul.
It is 62 weeks since this lovely man left this world.
I miss him so very much every day.
This week has been difficult and I know he would not have liked dealing with things.
I love you so very muchPaul, I always will.
This evening, I lit this candle for other much missed loved ones.
Please consider it lit for those loved ones you miss and mourn.
This evening , I lit this candle for those struggling with problems and difficulties in their lives.
Please consider it as lit for you, your family, friends, acquaintances and colleagues.
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Thankyou Linda
You know what it means to me.
X x
Thank you so much. Always a comfort to see these lit for everyone on a Sunday evening. Take care xx
My partner (aged 42) died on may 11th 2025…so, this thread caught my eye for sure. Hugs and warm thoughts for all on this horrible grief journey xx
MrsS2025
Sorry so to hear this. It is such early days for you. You will be in shock. Just take it a day at a time. Try and eat something and rest when you can. There is no rush to do anything. This site has been a lifeline for me and I am 12 months into this horrible journey. You can say what you feel and no one judges you. And everyone genuinely understands. Sending you a big hug x
Thank you. I keep waiting to wake up from this nightmare, but end up swearing out loud when reality kicks in. Reality is cruel. Am just really agitated all the time- Pav, my partner, was the calm, logical one. Im not! Our daughter is 4, and shes the only thing keeping me from going mad. She needs the stability, and Pav would be proud…even though ive been swearing a lot.
12 months for you? Wow…i know words seem pointless at times, but i hope youre as ok as you can be, given whats happened. Warm hugs, and thoughts to you xx
I’m very sorry for your loss.
