Hi everyone, i know this question is a dIfficult Subject but i need to know what people think!
Are mediums really able to talk to our lost loved ones?
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Hi @Stargirl93 , i really do believe that there are gifted people out there, i was told things that no one would of known, its so difficult i know because we are so vulnerable in a way its taken me 6 years to do this but it was a one on one and i do believe this lady was genuine, hipe this can help xxxx
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I’m not sure. When my OH first passed I immediately threw myself into trying to convince myself there was an afterlife and that I’ll see him again. Now I think that was just a coping mechanism to help me try and make sense of it all and get through it in anyway I possibly could.
I do watch Tyler Henry and Matt Fraser and at some points I really believe then other times I realise that what they are saying applies to so many grieving people. I really wish I knew the answer.
I’m going to my local spiritualist church on the 28th of May for a one 2 one reading and I’m really hoping that they give me a belief that there is something more but I need specifics and not just the usual generic nonsense.
Lots of people have told me about readings they have had or signs or things that have happened to them but I don’t really believe them. I need to see for myself.
I would absolutely love a reading with Matt Fraser but his waiting list is five years long, I have added my name to be informed next time he opens his list though and I’ll definitely join that list if I’m able to.
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Hi, I’m 6 weeks on from losing my girl and my sister has been trying to convince me to see a medium, she believes it but I’m not sure if I do.
I’m worried that they’re not real and will play on vulnerable peoples emotions to give them false hope. I just want to know if my girl is okay, but would be worried they’re just saying she is okay to ease my mind.
Would appreciate any advice on it.
I’m the same. I am going to see one but I’m not going to tell them anything at all about me or my partner. They’re the medium, thay can tell me!
If you do go to one don’t add them on Facebook or message them on Facebook if you have anything public on your profile that they could nose through and feed back to you. Many mediums seem to be so very generic, I have a young man or a young woman here, young these days could mean anyone 60 or under really.
I see you put things in the casket with them, I think we all do, letters roses and teddies are all incredibly common things to put in.
I see you’ve kept clothing of that person, again I think we all do.
You feel guilt around the death, again so very very common amongst all of us going through this.
They watch over you every day and are so proud of you, I’m absolutely sure your girl would be beyond proud of you but it’s still rather generic from a medium.
We all wonder if we’ll get signs so they usually say they have been sending you signs, again soo generic.
I’d want specific things that only applied to us, things that don’t just apply to every grieving person but things that nobody else would know. If spirits can tell a medium that you kept some clothes or that you feel guilty then they can tell them real personal information too.
I’m going to my local spiritualist church on the 28th of May for a one to. I’m sceptical but we’ll see. I know there are things that we used to joke about that I’d be buggered doing if anything ever happened to him and if he could actually come through I know for sure he’d mention them things 
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I’ve had readings with quite a few now and I’ve yet to find one whose convinced me. I lpaid £750 for my first ever reading with a “top American medium” and it was clear she was bluffing. Thankfully after twenty painful minutes of guessing and very vague generic stuff and one guess that was way off the mark she stopped the reading and refunded me.
Most of them have done the gentleman here with chest issues, lady with cancer thing. Nearly all of them mentioned grandparents but they are the easiest guesses.
They bring so much love through.
They know you’re thinking of memorial tatoos, bears, jewellery or trees.
There’s a birthday or anniversary coming up they want to acknowledge, there’s only twelve months in a year so odds are quite high that there will be a birthday or anniversary in the family soon. A few gave me “significant months” that weren’t particularly that significant but again there’s a one in twelve chance of getting something.
They bring a lost baby with them, again miscarriages are sadly so incredibly common that most families will have a lost baby 
There’s been a disagreement in the family, with all the stress around a death, funeral arrangements, inheritance etc or just familiar falling out it’s rather common to have family disagreements.
You’ve been noticing signs, feathers, robins, coins etc…again don’t we all look out for signs after our loss.
They know grief inside out. They know exactly how we are feeling and exactly what we want to hear. I’ve got a few more readings coming up so I haven’t given up but I’m no longer hopeful.
I’ve just discovered OPERATION PIZZA ROLL and I’ve got to be honest I’m gutted.
There are so many frauds out there waiting to scam us out of money 