Hi Jackie, thankyou for your wise words. I think now that I am having a similar problem to you with Brian’s family. We made our wills and only included each other. Non of his family or mine would inherit. His daughters will have nothing to do with me now and by their tantrums at his funeral as they considered themselves the most important mourners even though I had been his wife for thirty years. They totally ignored me and tried to take over. It didn’t work and they have ignored me and every attempt I have made to make contact since. I admire you honouring Richard’s wishes. I would love to include Brian’s immediate family in my current will but afraid they made their wishes known and that is, they want nothing to do with me, although we had a previous good relationship, so I will not insult them by offering them anything from me in the future. It’s a shame it had to be like this.
Pat xxx
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