Miscarriage

Hi, it’s been 2 weeks since I’ve had a miscarriage and I’m struggling really bad I have no one to talk to about it! I don’t have any relationship with my mother etc!

3 years ago I had to have my ovary removed due to a large cyst so ever since then me having my own child as always been a struggle me and my partner was trying over 4 years and was referred to fertility clinic but we couldn’t get no help as my partner already as a kid ! So that was a struggling in its self.

So in may I found out I was pregnant and I was over the moon! Waiting years to see a positive pregnancy test was a dream… my partner could t wait to become a dad we didn’t think it would happen naturally but it did!

So 2 weeks after I found out I started bleeding at first it was just a little bit so I booked in for a private scan they said the baby sacked looked small for 6 weeks but everything looked normal saw the flicker off the heart beat then couple days later the bleeding carried on but I weren’t in any pain and it was just on the tissue so I went to the early pregnancy unit and they did a scan and yet again I got told no to worry the blood would go on it’s on and to rest etc so the bleeding stopped after 6days and I still was feeling very pregnant! I had my check up scan in 2 weeks so Friday the 13th came and I had my scan and that’s when I got told the baby had gone absolutely broken me!

After waiting all that time for it to be gone is a pain I can’t explain! All my friends say is you can try again I know load off women go through this but the pain is a different kind off pain I can’t talk to my partner about because all I do is cry! I don’t no what to do

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Hello @Moodycoww223,

I can see that you’re new to the community. I hope you find it to be a support to you, but I am so sorry for your loss.

You say you are feeling broken and don’t know what to do - the pain you are feeling is devastating. I wanted to share some sources of support that might help you right now.

Sue Ryder also has some resources which can help you cope with grief.

  • Our Grief Guide self-help platform which has information, resources and advice to help you through your grief

  • Our Bereavement Information pages which can walk you through what you are going through.

Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.

Take care,

Alex

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