I still miss my Mum every day and missed her before she died as she had vascular dementia and stopped recognising me at least 2 years before she passed which was heartbreaking and I used to cry everytime I left her after visiting her in her nursing home 
Hello @JEM06,
I’m a part of the Online Community team, and I can see that you are new to the community - I’d like to thank you for bravely starting this thread and sharing how you are feeling. I’m so sorry to hear about Mum. Most community members have sadly experienced the death of a loved one and so will understand some of what you are going through.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support. In the meantime, you may wish to look at these Sue Ryder resources which might be helpful.
- Our Grief Guide self-help platform which has information, resources and advice to help you through your grief
- Our free Online Bereavement Counselling which is held via video chat
- Our Bereavement Information pages which can walk you through what you are going through.
I really hope you find the community helpful and a good source of support and I also hope you feel you can access more support should you need it.
Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.
Take care,
Naoise
Hi,
I am so sorry for your loss my Mum was to in a nursing home before she passed away last March, i know its really hard and just like yourself i too miss my Mum everyday i hope you don’t mind me sharing x
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Soo sorry for your loss. I lost my mum on 2nd july just 8 weeks after losing my dad on 26th April last year and miss them both so much but my mums death has hit me harder even though i was a daddy’s girl. My mum was my best friend and i could talk to her about anything, i miss the chats and the phone and video calls we shared 
it was sudden and unexpected with both of them and still feel as if it’s all been a bad dream, i don’t think i will ever get over the loss x