Missing my mum, she died almost 3 weeks ago. She wasn’t just my mum but also my best friend. The house feels so empty without her, I have never felt so alone. Having a bit of a meltdown this afternoon.
Hi @Victoria22
I lost my mum 12 weeks ago. Then I lost dad 2 weeks ago. I feel your pain and wanted you to know you’re not alone. Grief is horrid and i miss them so much. We were really close and the aches in my heart are so painful. It’s raw for you right now. Focus on small goals, post here, and cry your heart out.
Thinking of you and sending a virtual hug. Rob x
So sorry. I’ve lost my dad and know all too well how empty a house can seem, like there’s too much space at the same time as the walls are closing in. Sending hugs and I’m here if you want to chat.
@Victoria22 I lost my Mum almost 5 weeks ago. I completely relate to your words, I’m so sorry for your loss xxx
Hi, I completely understand too. My Mum - my very best friend - passed away suddenly 6 weeks ago. It just doesn’t seem real. How can she not be here?! Sending love xx
Me too. Lost my mum on new year’s day. Although 83 it was sudden only saw her three hours before. I just can’t imagine not seeing her again. I try to keep thinking what she’d be telling me now. She was my best friend and since dad died five years back we’ve been joined at the hip. Sending love and strength to you all trying to navigate through this grief
Miss mine everyday. She died after a short and painful illness. She was so brave and strong. I was so proud of her. I hipe she was proud of me. It was a privilege to provide care to her.
Even when she moved into the final stages and speak properly - she made sounds to say I love you when I said it her. Bless her - she fought until the end.
Dad just died - 9 weeks after her. It feels like all the focus has shifted from mum. I don’t want people to forget she was amazing because dad was more extroverted.