I lost my mum to cancer in 2007, i know it’s a long time ago and probably should have dealt with my grief by now, but it feels like as time goes by it gets harder, she’s missed out on so much, me getting married, 6 ofbher grandchildren being born. Most of the time I’m ok, but then there’s the birthdays and anniversaries, mum died the day before my birthday and i feel like she was angry with me which is why she went then. She wasn’t just my mum she was my best friend and we did so much together. Im really struggling at the moment and i don’t know what to do
I can see that you’re new to the community, so I wanted to say that I am so sorry for the loss of your mum that brings you here.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I wanted to share a few Sue Ryder resources with you that may help right now.
Our Grief Guide self-help platform which has information, resources and advice to help you through your grief
Our Grief Coach text service, which sends you personalised text support via SMS
Our free Online Bereavement Counselling which is held via video chat
Our Bereavement Information pages which can walk you through what you are going through
Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.