My husband passed away 8weeks ago we were together for 17 years. He was my best friend he was the kindest man you could meet. He always had time for everyone. My heart is broken in so many pieces. I feel overwhelmed with sadness. People tell me the pain lessons with time but it hurts more with each passing day. I just feel lost and so alone.
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So sorry for your loss, i understand how you feel, i too lost my husband 11 weeks ago to cancer, he had just turned 50, i had 4 weeks from the diagnosis. Im struggling without him, its like im in a deep hole and theres no end. We were together 22 years and had just celebrated our wedding anniversary on 19th October.
After he retired from the army after 24 years we spent everyday today, bought our forever home in November 2022, had plans to do so many things. Now the house is empty and our dreams have gone.
Sorry for rambling. Just wanted to let you know that your not alone.
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**i know the feeling only to well.ican assure you it does lessen but it takes time.months rather than weeks.if you can get involved with a club it helps for a few hours .i can’t cause I’m deaf
I’m so sorry for your loss, Thankyou for your kind words. We also bought our forever home in 2001 spent the last two years renovating it and now he’s not here to enjoy. I understand how you feel our house feels empty and cold without him to. They should be here with us enjoying life. X
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Lost my husband very suddenly 16 weeks ago we had just celebrated our golden wedding i feel like a part of me has been ripped out and even though i see a lot of friends and family i feel constantly alone the pain never goes away I can’t imagine ever being truly happy again so i know exactly how you feel sending hugs
Y hi Barbara
Your very luck to see friends.i am sure it will become easier.
I ha a strange occurrence last night.i was asleep (I think)when Audrey called out she wanted help to get off a chair so I got out of bed and held out my hand to her.she grasped it but just faded away.i had to choke back the tears.strange after 22 weeks without her.26 Ayr’s of unmarried love!,!
Tony
I lost my husband suddenly 15 months ago and I just feel so empty inside. Food doesn’t taste the same and nothing feels good. All the support sites say, do something you enjoy, but the problem is I don’t enjoy anything anymore.
Family and friends have been great but they just don’t understand how I feel, and I hope they never do.
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I know what you mean .i lost my partner 6months ago and although I feel it’s wrong and I am sure my partner wouldn’t want me to I miss her and life @92 will never feel the same I’m sure.but it goes on
I lost my husband suddenly too it’s four months now since he passed but it now seems worse i feel all the emotions that your experiencing it feels like life has stopped for me the future wiped out, even when i’m with people still feel lonely. Everyone says it will get better with time but I can’t imagine it ever will sending love
I agree with you with everything you said, its been 11 weeks since I lost my beloved husband and my life is empty now
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