I found a notebook in my mums things and it had the words you are my sushine, on it. Now i cant stop singing the song and they did take my sunshine away. I am so depressed, im crying. I lived with my mum. She listened to me.
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Hello @Titch3,
I’m so sorry for the loss of your mum. Thank you for sharing this with us. I’m just giving your thread a gentle, “bump” for you - hopefully someone will have some thoughts to share.
Take good care,
Alex
I’m so sorry for your loss. I wish there were words I could say that would help but it is so hard. I recently lost my mom too and the pain is unimaginable. But we try to carry on for others around us.
Do you have any support, any other family or friends nearby? We all learn to grieve in our own ways and there is no time limit on it either. Please reach out to people for support much like you have on here. You aren’t alone. Take care x
Thank you. I do have a couple of good friends.
I am sorry for your loss.
hi, I too lost my mum before xmas suddenly to lung cancer, it was a great shock and we hardly had time to absorb what was happening. I lived with mum the past 8 years and we shared some lovely times together. I just feel numb still and I don’t think that I have fully accepted what has happened. I do cry but it can be so random and sudden. It is the little thing’s that trigger me off. I can’t believe that I will never see her again. She was the most amazing mother anyone could ask for. I have grown up children and grandchildren but when I am on my own at home or driving (its often when I am driving) my thoughts drift to the last few months and her last few days, it hurts and I wish I could of helped her get better, but I couldn’t stop the cancer taking her away, that’s what makes it so hard. Now my life (and the children’s) is a different life, a new norm, but it will take a long time to get used to this new way of life. I am sorry for your loss too Tich3 and Rose-petals, I feel your pain.
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Thank you.
Sorry for your loss AmyDebs.
Thank you Titch3