I found a notebook in my mums things and it had the words you are my sushine, on it. Now i cant stop singing the song and they did take my sunshine away. I am so depressed, im crying. I lived with my mum. She listened to me.
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Hello @Titch3,
I’m so sorry for the loss of your mum. Thank you for sharing this with us. I’m just giving your thread a gentle, “bump” for you - hopefully someone will have some thoughts to share.
Take good care,
Alex
I’m so sorry for your loss. I wish there were words I could say that would help but it is so hard. I recently lost my mom too and the pain is unimaginable. But we try to carry on for others around us.
Do you have any support, any other family or friends nearby? We all learn to grieve in our own ways and there is no time limit on it either. Please reach out to people for support much like you have on here. You aren’t alone. Take care x
Thank you. I do have a couple of good friends.
I am sorry for your loss.
hi, I too lost my mum before xmas suddenly to lung cancer, it was a great shock and we hardly had time to absorb what was happening. I lived with mum the past 8 years and we shared some lovely times together. I just feel numb still and I don’t think that I have fully accepted what has happened. I do cry but it can be so random and sudden. It is the little thing’s that trigger me off. I can’t believe that I will never see her again. She was the most amazing mother anyone could ask for. I have grown up children and grandchildren but when I am on my own at home or driving (its often when I am driving) my thoughts drift to the last few months and her last few days, it hurts and I wish I could of helped her get better, but I couldn’t stop the cancer taking her away, that’s what makes it so hard. Now my life (and the children’s) is a different life, a new norm, but it will take a long time to get used to this new way of life. I am sorry for your loss too Tich3 and Rose-petals, I feel your pain.
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Thank you.
Sorry for your loss AmyDebs.
Thank you Titch3
I lost my mum in March. When she was in hospital I sung this done to her when she couldn’t drink and it made her drink and I got her home but sadly three weeks later she passed away. We also had the song at her funeral which was lovely but also so very sad. We always sang it the last few months I miss her so very much.
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So sorry for your Chez.
I have cried a lot today, it still feels like yesterday that i heard the bad news.
Best wishes
Titch x
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Hi Chez
So sorry to hear a out the loss of your mum. I find that just trying to take one day at a time helps sometimes. It feels like it’s not real doesn’t it. They say that grief is love with nowhere to go. I believe that. It hurts alot, but she will always be with you. Nobody can take away your memories. Sending you love. Debs
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Sorry i realise i missed a word
Sorry for your loss its meant to read, Chez.
Best wishes
Take care
Titch oh typed my real name then realised, oh i must be tired, sorry x
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Sorry for your loss. Losing your mum is the worst thing ever. I lost my mum last year and I still find myself in tears at times, I lost my Dad 4 years ago and I’m now on my own. Sending a hug 
xx
It takes time doesn’t it, I still feel like it’s a dream. I hope you are okay. There is no time limit on grief, everyone grieves in their own way. 
thinking of you
Sorry to hear about the loss of your mum. I lost mine before Xmas, it doesn’t feel real yet, I am sure it hasn’t fully hit me. Sending love and positive thoughts your way
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