Hi, this is the first time I wriiten about my loss. My older sister died in 2023 at 53 from cancer. I’ve always believed that we were very close and have always been there for each other and this has helped me with the grieving. However, recently I’ve been going over memories and feeling that I could’ve been a better sister at times. Its set me back to crying all the time and obsessing over it. Its so hard knowing that I can never ask her or know whether im worrying over nothing. I still.can’t get over her death and I know she thought she would survive it but her health deteriorated quickly, I cant handle the sadness of what she went through and how quickly her life ended when she was making plans for the future.
I dont really know why Im writing all this now, other than to talk to people who are going through something similar.
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Hello @Brontesis,
I’m so sorry for the loss of your sister. Thank you for sharing this with us. I’m just giving your thread a gentle, “bump” for you - hopefully someone will have some thoughts to share.
Take good care,
Naoise
i also recently lost my sister, and i can understand what youre going through. although you think you couldve been a better sister at times, in the end she knew that you loved her no matter what and i think thats all that matters
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