Missing my so

6 years since losing my son and still feels like yesterday watching his two brothers suffer aswell sometimes it’s hard to see any further

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Hello @Simon2,

I can see that you’re new to the community. I hope you find it to be a support to you, but I am so sorry for the loss of your son that brings you here. Most of our members have experienced loss and will understand some of what you are going through.

I wanted to share some resources with you that you might want to explore:

  • Child Bereavement UK support families with the loss of a child. They also support bereaved children. You can call their helpline on 0800 02 888 40.

  • The Compassionate Friends support families who have lost a child of any age. You can call them on 0345 123 2304

Sue Ryder also has some resources which can help you cope with grief.

Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.

Take care,


Hello @simon2, lve just joined this community.l lost my 38yr old son Ross 3yrs ago.lt just seems like yesterday.l feel as if a big part of me died that day.Every day is an effort to get through these days.l dont want to get out of bed.l feel so depressed and anxious,but l have my husband and the rest of my family.l feel guilty that lm not making time for them anymore.My oldest son,who is 4yrs older than Ross is finding it hard to cope with life since his brother died.They were so close.He doesnt go out of his house and has really bad anxiety.l havent had any grief councelling.My GP kept putting me off.l didn’t have the energy or heart to look anywhere for councelling,untill l came across this organisation. I really hope they can help you try and have a life after losing your son.l can only hope they can help me find myself.good luck and god blessxx

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