Hi, i lost my sole mate 4 months ago. It still doesn’t feel real, i go to work in a daze, put on a smile and then feel guilty. Im just holding it together, the wrong word and im a mess. My kids have been great. But they dont get it. I miss his hugs and the way he would ask how my day went, and we would laugh alot about it i miss him so much. Its so quiet now.
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I lost my partner last sunday. The funeral is thursday so i know exactly how ur feeling.
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I will be thinking of you on Thursday xx
I lost my love just under 6 weeks ago and definitely can’t believe it’s happened! I talk to him all the time but that doesn’t really help. I miss the silliness we had, the daft routines we had developed between us, our little secret communications and signs! We had so many plans ripped away from us 
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Yes, it’s all the plans, the future and that comfortable feeling that you have actually found the other half of you, then it just disappeared. I’m still in shock and it’s almost 7 months now.
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Hi, I don’t think anyone will really understand unless they have experienced the loss of a partner, it doesn’t compare to anything else. The loss changes every aspect of your life, from what is on your shopping list to what to watch on TV, confidence levels and motivation to name a few. Keep reaching out, everyone here gets it …use whatever friends and family support you can and take things at your own pace. There are no right and wrongs … simply time…jo
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5 months and still it feels unreal.
Keeping going one day at a time but the sadness and loneliness is overwhelming.
Hopefully it will get less painful as time moves on.
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