I still sit up in bed whist everyone sleeps looking through my brother’s Facebook page and are messages to each other and became so sad and upset that he’s not by my side anymore. Why is it at night time when the sky goes dark and the house goes quiet everyone is fast asleep but I am up remembering the good times and then I feel the loneliness setting in that my brother has gone. Then that sharp stab of grief sets in.
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It’s because you are human, we are not designed to cope with grief. Hopefully in time we can find a way to live with the grief, because I don’t think it ever goes away. Nighttime is hell isn’t it, I’ve started doing crosswords, hoping I will just drift off to sleep, obviously it doesn’t work, but I try.
Look after yourself, xx
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Suzanne.w
So sorry for the loss of your brother,i lost my wife in September and my sister four days before her.
I’m leaving looking at pictures for a little while as everything is raw with us at the moment giving the grief fog a chance to clear. Let all your emotions develope naturally and let the tears flow I’ve found i feel so much better after it.
Take care 
