I just wanted to say that money does affect loss. One woman on here wrote about having money problems. What makes grief even worse, is when you lose someone and you were financially dependent on them. There would be many people who will see an income cut in half. And, as governments cut back on assistance, as jobs are hard to come by, some people are not only confronted by grief, but are quickly left to face financial hardship, which most certainly makes the whole thing worse.
You lose emotional support and financial support, and money, or its lack, is nothing to ignore. Suddenly, someone must not only face life alone, but in some cases, must wonder how to survive. This is very bad. That is why out of loss, I learned a whole new respect for saving. And for women, this is important.
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so panicked at first but luckily my husband’s annuitys passed to me so with that and my two private pensions I will be fine. There won’t be anymore expensive holidays or new cars anymore these days have gone. I am quite content to live the quiet life till I am reunited with Colin x