I put a few messages on here in September/October when I lost my husband then the father of my children five weeks later when I was struggling with the enormity of it all, I thought I would be able to communicate with people in a similar situation but was disappointed with the response to my messages.
Maybe I don’t understand how the website works but it didn’t give me the empathy I was hoping it would but on a positive note, 3 months on , ( after all of the trauma and apologies from family members ) I have picked myself up, relocated to be near my family and have begun to start the next chapter in my life aged 66
I miss them both every day but I am strong and I will make the next chapter something to be proud of
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derbyhall, I am so sorry that your husband died. Mine did too. It is awful, isn’t it? I am sorry that your children’s father died, surely your already broken heart is now is in shreds for them. It is just terrible.
I am 3 months in as well and find that I am coping better. Good on you for moving although I can’t imagine adding that kind of stress on top of what you are experiencing. Yes, we must all begin a new life even if we don’t feel like it, it began the day our husbands died. At the moment, mine is a jumbled up mess, but it is getting better by the day.
I hope you find joy in your new nest and happiness in you new life.
Much love.
Sorry for your losses.
Sorry you didn’t get the response you were looking for.
Good for you for moving and staying positive for moving through this.
All i can say is some days are productive where you feel like you are winning, but some days are where you need to take a moment or a day at a time.
I hope moving, brings you the support you are looking for.
All the best x