It’s been a year since the passing of my beautiful partner. And for reasons unknown I’m pushed out, her siblings never really bothered about her she always looked on facebook on birthdays and nothing from them. I really felt it for her sadness. And on her passing they were all over it as if they owned it. I have never heard of them and I don’t want to cause trouble. I phoned once and the phone was put down. I’m at a loss and my partner was my word. Should I just except it and move on from them and just concentrate on my partner. Ty
Yes. I have tried to reconstruct my husband’s legacy with uncaring persons and obviously, because they didn’t care then, they don’t care now. My concept is to honor and represent the person I love and who chose me and lived that. Not their baggage whether they wanted it out not. I remain and I make the decisions. Be kind to your self and true to your heart.
Upur experience sounds horrible along with her siblings behaviour. They dont deserve any of your time or concern ,concentrate on yourself and your healing. Remember your love and time together in your own way . I think you’d be best just letting them be. They didnt treat your partner kindly in life so give them no more of your time . You look after you.
@Dave-51 Hi they’re just unbelievably bad to be this way and you were the main one who was there for her when they frankly didn’t even care.
Now that’s she’s sadly passed their behaviour is just shocking and I just wouldn’t bother with them if that’s how they’re gonna be.
In your mind your own conscience is clear in the knowledge that you’re hands are clean whereas they’re the ones with blood on it.
Best just focus on your own wellbeing and you have all the sadness of loosing her to experience which will naturally be devastating for you.Plus unfortunately you maybe feeling the pain of being unfairly rejected by these people too.
So long as you have people around you to talk too as well as this forum to express your true feelings..then you’ve definitely got some kind of structure there