Mum dying

Hi all.
I’m Amy and I’m 22
I lost my mum in November I found her dead. I’m really really struggling to come to terms with this . It’s eating me alive every day

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Hi Amy,
Just read your post and my heart goes out to you.
This grief journey is horrendous and so difficult at times we’ll mostly to get through.
My mum passed in Deb 2022 but it feels like yesterday.
Keep posting on here as others will reply soon and you will feel less alone.
Have you any other family that can help you ?
Everyone on here understands and this site is wonderful. No one judges you do feel free to post whatever you want to.
I have found the site to be my lifeline.
Take each day at a time and try to set yourself small targets for each day. That’s what I did in the bed and still do. It helps me a lot
I also set up an area in my lounge with things about my mum eg photo candle flowers items that belonged to her and when I feel extremely low I sit downstairs and feel close to her there.
It’s still the very raw time for you so it’s heartbreaking trying to cope and get through everything that has to be done.
Please don’t be on your own. Reach out by posting on here and it will help you so much
Here any time for you
Deborah x

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@Amy2001 so sorry for your loss, my mum died 19 days ago and I am also struggling. Coming here and comunicating with people helps me. Its going to take time but we all will be ok one day. Sending you hugs xxx stay strong

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Hi Amy I’m so sorry for your loss when you are so young.

Hi Amy we
Just getting in touch with you to see if you are okish
Love Deborah x