Anyone want to reach out just lost my mum at 65 who wasn’t ill. She shocked us all and I miss her like mad
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terribly sorry. you must be in shock. life can be so abrupt. mine is gone 8 years and i am missing her still so much. there is no replacement for loving parents who are our best friends. it is a long hard road, i am afraid to say. 
She wasn’t ill or sick or injured. She was just like you and me and she passed very quickly and suddenly. She had a hemorage on the brain and never came round. Life sucks. She shouldnt have gone she had so much life ahead
Sending you so much love - I am so sorry to hear about your mum.
My mum died 2 weeks ago today very suddenly and I’m still in complete shock.
I know it so much easier said than done right now as the pain is so much but please do try and rest a little and eat when you can - take each day one at a time - all the days merge into one I know.
Here if need to talk x
Sending love to you all
I lost my mum last year I’m still trying to come to terms with it. I received no real support from my brother or sister in law apart from her arranging mum’s funeral even that wasn’t all what me and my dad. Only some of family been supportive friends have been more supportive which has helped. Work not really been good although better lately.
I lost four cousins one a year older than me at 59 had an accident in my van at work. Joined a bereavement group which is good but only able to go when I’m off work. How do you get through it
Hi, my mum 64 suddenly passed away 5 weeks ago today but feels like a lifetime, we were shopping the day before and she seem well. Life just isnt the same anymore and im really struggling and miss her so much… be kind to yourself…
I am so so sorry for your loss…
Sorry to anyone who has recently lost a loved one, I can truly empathise. I lost my Mam in January, she was 67 years old and it was sudden and unexpected. I’m finding the pain unbearable, it’s truly devastating . I’m taking medication to help me sleep and to generally help me cope.
I hope it gets easier with time, but I’ll miss her forever
Hi Claire sorry for your loss it’s horrific isn’t it. It’s been over a year for me last January I’m told it gets better in time I try and keep myself busy with things like you will never get over it take care have you lots of friends to help you through it. I joined bereavement cafe which has helped but not able to go often
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Thank you for your message, yes it’s the worst possible feeling. I have a lovely family and friends for support and it helps being with people who knew her as well as I did. I’ve had to take some time from work to process and work through the grief.
Sorry for your loss @Claire0281 , this is pretty much my situation too. I found my Mam at home yesterday (her 67th birthday) after being worried she hadn’t been in touch - we’re still waiting to hear from the coroner, but the likelihood is she died the day before, all completely unexpected. She was fit and active and didn’t have any health conditions, it’s all such a shock. I know I shouldn’t be focussing on it, but I can’t help thinking how frightened she must have been if she’s had a heart attack or stroke or something like that. She’s the one I’d always turn to when something like this happened, so just trying to find a way through it like you and all of us are. It’s going to be tough. Best wishes to you and your family.
I’m so sorry for your loss.
Weeks and months have passed for me and my family now, but it still doesn’t seem real. My advice would be to spend as much time as possible with your loved ones at this difficult time and don’t hold back your emotions, let it all out. Take care