Im realy struggling with text ive just got informing me mums cremation is 23rd jan, its pure cremation and no one can attend. Its happening miles away in andover , grounds are closed to public atm and i wanted to be near to mum on this day. Im completely shut out of everything , sibling deliberately chose not to inform me of mums last hours of life , i never got to say final goodbye neither did my daughter! Sibling has key to mums house and is clearing mums house ! The rejection ontop of grief is too much.