We are struggling to cope with losing our son in February. He was 47. His funeral was last week now we feel there is nothing . heartbroken xx
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Hello @Elainedave,
I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. It sounds as though things are very very hard for you both, and it’s understandable that you’re struggling to cope.
I’m glad that you’ve been able to share how you are feeling here and I hope that you find the community a good source of support. Everyone here has experienced the loss of a loved one and will understand some of what you are going through.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I wanted to share a few Sue Ryder resources with you that may help you right now.
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Our Grief Guide self-help platform which has information, resources and advice to help you through your grief
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Our Grief Coach text service, which sends you personalised text support via SMS
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Our free Online Bereavement Counselling which is held via video chat
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Our Bereavement Information pages which can walk you through what you are going through.
You may also find it helpful to speak to The Compassionate Friends, who provide support for families who have lost a child of any age. Their contact number is 0345 123 2304, and their website is https://www.tcf.org.uk/
Take care - keep reaching out,
Alex
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Elaine Dave so very sorry to hear of the loss of your son.I totally understand your feelings of nothingness and loss.To lose your child is the ultimate loss.I am a widow 12 years.March 2022 I lost our only child my son.He was 51 he was my life and support since his dad died.I get up each day I carry on but god I miss him so very very much .I have not had a tear free day yet.My love hugs and blessings to you both xxxx
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Hi… im really sorry youre going through this…
21.9.21 our daughter passed after her battle with breast cancer (early 30s)…
Just need you to know… it gets easier.
Ye sure ppl say that alot, and i know right now youll likely feel all manner of turmoil… deeply upset, angry, confused… that parent thing about feeling we were helpless and couldnt protect them?
ALL normal emotions.
Each week we get through is another 7 days of growth.
We try to use the strength she had to fulfill the things she was passionate about… even simple things like being kind/useful source of experience for other ppl sharing similar traumas?
I’m personally so grateful i stumbled across this…
Thank you so much for sharing. Knowing other ppl are going through the same is a huge comfort.
Wishing you and your family all the strength and respect in the world.
Be safe friend 
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So sorry for your loss x
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