My amazing dad

Hello all. I wanted to share the lyrics to this poignant song.
Every generation
Blames the one before
And all of their frustrations
Come beating on your door

I know that I’m a prisoner
To all my Father held so dear
I know that I’m a hostage
To all his hopes and fears
I just wish I could have told him in the living years

Oh, crumpled bits of paper
Filled with imperfect thought
Stilted conversations
I’m afraid that’s all we’ve got

You say you just don’t see it
He says it’s perfect sense
You just can’t get agreement
In this present tense
We all talk a different language
Talking in defence

Say it loud (say it loud), say it clear (oh say it clear)
You can listen as well as you hear
It’s too late (it’s too late) when we die (oh when we die)
To admit we don’t see eye to eye

So we open up a quarrel
Between the present and the past
We only sacrifice the future
It’s the bitterness that lasts

So don’t yield to the fortunes
You sometimes see as fate
It may have a new perspective
On a different day
And if you don’t give up, and don’t give in
You may just be okay

So say it loud, say it clear (oh say it clear)
You can listen as well as you hear
Because it’s too late, it’s too late (it’s too late)
When we die (oh, when we die)
To admit we don’t see eye to eye

I wasn’t there that morning
When my Father passed away
I didn’t get to tell him
All the things I had to say

I think I caught his spirit
Later that same year
I’m sure I heard his echo
In my baby’s new born tears
I just wish I could have told him in the living years

Say it loud, say it clear (oh say it clear)
You can listen as well as you hear
It’s too late (it’s too late) when we die (it’s too late when we die)
To admit we don’t see eye to eye

So say it, say it, say it loud (say it loud)
Say it clear (come on say it clear)
Say it loud
(Don’t give up, don’t give in and don’t look away 'til it’s too late)
Say it clear
Say it loud (say it loud, say it loud)
This is for my amazing dad. I share this because nearly 6 years ago I lost my mum to a serious meningitis illness and nearly 6 years later I keep telling myself how much I don’t want to regret not telling my dad what he means to me. It wouid be to late not to tell him when he’s gone. I did it with my mum I regret never telling her I loved her and how proud of him and how grateful I am of what my mum did for me. I cannot live with another regret and the guilt I feel
So dad I love you so so much. You have given me so much I’m proud to be your son
If your reading this don’t put of telling your parents how you feel. You’ll live with the regret and the heartache of not saying what you feel in your heart.

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My dad and I have had our arguments our disagreements and we’ve hit each other it was sometimes in front of my mum before she left us. Everytime we fought my mum would look at me in disgust. What I should of done is never argued with my dad because not only life is to short but he’s my dad he deserves a son who respects him.
Now after my mum has gone I know my mum would want me to look after him keel him safe and enjoy the rest of his life. I want to make my mum proud of me

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my family are ‘biological’ only we dont get on and when my dad was ill i did phone my sister to ask how dad was . I hadnt seen him for two years .My sister had her claws into me and pulled some nasty stunts over dads death My brother just ignored me which was a blessing and so did my mum. However after dad died mum sent me a birthday card so i phoned her to say thanks and told her that i’d sponsored a Guide Dog in memory of my dad She was over the moon with that . So i sent her photos of the dog And again she was totally over the moon and insists on sending me a card to thank me . Point is that things can bring people together again and Margo the Guide Dog is doing that for us . I admire you now for your attiude of wanting to look after your dad. i hope all goes well with you both.
Its a start on getting back together for me and my family , a bit of a bumpy road.