Hi jacks65
I donāt know how you deal with such a lot of grief in a short time. I lost my parents 16 weeks apart and that was bad enough.
Take care of yourself, your grief will be very raw .
I canāt settle to anything. I keep starting things, but donāt finish them . Itās a hard road .
Itās doing whatever gets you through. If belonging to a spiritual group brings you some peace and comfort then thats great.
I wish you all the best. I dont know what awaits me when my time comes.
None of us do, that was another reason to join spiritual group. I got lucky there as I made friends with person who runs it. Done a few sessions on FB. Dealing with loss changes you and your views.