I posted her a few weeks ago talking about how i am persuing legal action with the funeral directors who messed everything up with my mum. I am at a complete loss. I have tried legal advice and basically it is my word against theirs, unless i took pictures of my mum in the coffin to prove what they done to her then i really dont have a leg to stand on. I am devasted that i canāt get any justice for my mum. I know i can say atleast i tried, but im devastated that i cant actually get justice for her. I went the other day to get my mums ashes and bring her home, so she can now rest and it is very bitter sweet. Im somewhat happy i have my mum home now, but im beyond upset that the only way i can have my mum is if she is in an urn. I really dont know how im going to recover from losing her. Everyday is a challenge. She was my best friend and everyone used to joke and ask when we was going to finally cut the cord (im 32š) my reply was always āwe will never cut the cordā. Im completely heartbroken and im just trying to channel my heartbreak into something a little more positive. I have 2 little girls and im trying to channel everything i have into being the best mum i can to them. If im half the mum to them little girls that my mum was to me then i have succeeded. So as im at a standstill will the legal side of it im just trying to focus on being the best mum i can be and keeping my mums memory alive. I have both mum and dads ashes at home so i know they will be enjoying eternity together. Sorry this is a bit long, this is the only place i can get things off my chest properly. Thanks for reading x
Hi,
Iām so sorry to hear youāve had to deal with all this with the FD and are at a standstill with the legal side.
It is terrible what happened to you and I hope that something can be done to get justice for you and your Mum.
I lost my mum last Sunday and I feel so lost with it all.
One saying which is helping to bring me some comfort is:
āTo live in hearts we leave behind is not to dieā
Sending you so much love at this time x
Hi @Col92, I read your story in an earlier post & again Iām so so sorry that this has happened to you. You have your mum home now & she will be able to rest in peace.
With that level of incompetence & negligence you canāt be the only person this has happened to. Can you see reviews on Google of this FD as this may be a way to reach out to others they have done this to? If there is a group of you itās likely that your complaints will be taken more seriously.
LBC have a legal hour on Sat & Sun nights at 9pm. If you were brave enough to call in Iām sure anyone who heard your story would want to help & give advice even if the legal hour presenter had not come across this before. You arenāt the first person this has happened to & sadly you wonāt be the last.
Remember your mum lives on in you & your girls 