My dad died and nobody told me.

On mother’s day I went to my mums grave to put her some flowers and a card and to my horror I discovered my dad had just been buried with her. I just found out he had stage 4 copd and emphysema and died on my mums anniversary he was buried with her a day before mother’s day.i never even knew he was ill.me and my dad drifted over the years when we lost mum he kept away from me because he said he found it way to hard as I look so much like mum.but for family not to tell me is bang out of order he was still my dad and I loved him.

Absolutely awful and shattering im sorry xx

That is so sad, I’m so sorry for your loss and that none of your family told you. What a terrible way to find out.

I know thank you x

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