My daughter died 18th months after her dad with the same cancer-Glioblastoma Multiforme. She died aged 15 on the 27th May 2019.
How on earth do i mark her 21st? I can’t have a party because she not here to take part. As a family we have gone for dinner every year just about. Has anyone been in this position or has any ideas i could consider? TIA x
I’m so sorry to hear your daughter, @Banana21. I’m sure someone who has been there will be along to share their thoughts.
You might also want to have a read of our coping with important dates support page. It has some ideas on how you might want to mark the day.
Take good care and keep reaching out,
Seaneen
Thank you.
Dear Banana 21
How difficult it must be, perhaps you could plant 21 small rose bushes if you have a garden ? Or if you are arty, have photos duplicated of your daughter and make them into the shape of a 2 and 1 and get it framed? Alternatively, a coffee morning in her name with donations to cancer research? I wish you as easy a day as is possible, much love to you
@HOLLIE1988 Some great ideas there. I do have a small garden so the flowers would be a really nice idea. Thank you. Love and peace to you.
Our 33yr old daughter passed away 9 weeks ago. We are utterly heartbroken. Just to get us out of the house we went to a small garden centre and bought cerise plants to have in our garden where she lived yo soak in the sun and sit with her beloved dogs. We bought the plants went to the car and cried our eyes out. But I am so glad we have bought the plants to remember our beautiful daughter who liked wearing cerise pink.
We too have her birthday coming up but not sure what to do, our daughter is not here to share it with us.