I lost my father several years back. 1) One particular night he was taken ill to hospital, a neighbour came to the house and instructed me to make tea and toast for everyone; as I was not thinking straight I was unable to do it. Had my neighbour any right to be coming into my home and telling me what to do like that especially when i was so anxious with all going on. 2) When my father was in hospital - where he finally passed away - the same neighbour came to tell me that my father was dying. She gave me a lift to hospital. I gave her two friends numbers for her to contact them when my finally passed away. She refused to do it and would not explain why. If someone asked you to contact their friend to inform them of a death would you refuse to do it, if so why?
Thank you so much for sharing this with the community I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I just wanted to let you know that you have been heard and you are not alone.
Take good care,