I lost my husband on 4th July this year and I am still finding things very hard and still crying a lot. I try to keep myself busy and meet up with friends and family I am lucky enough to only live 1/2 a mile away from one of my daughters and I speak to my other daughter on the phone every day. I was starting to cope then I went away on a lovely Cruise with my family put when I got home and walked into an empty house the grieving started all over again we were married for 44 years.
@Jlg74 so sorry for the loss of your husband. It’s going to take a long while to adjust to such a huge loss so take your time and try not to have any expectations. Grief seems to move in phases and there will be difficult times mixed in with okay-ish times. Keep sharing your thoughts, you’re not alone. Take care xx
I think right now it’s the thought of Christmas without him I had a bad night were I couldn’t sleep and because of that today was very difficult with me braking down a lot hopefully I will sleep better tonight and wake feeling more positive.