It’s nearly 10 years that o lost my husband my best friend my life and soul I carnt cope I carnt get my head round that fact I carnt talk to him get advice make everything better I’m not me I have so many bad days who am I were am I . I’m lost I don’t feel human I want my husband I carnt move on I carnt get past anything I want a hug I want to be held I want to hear his voice I’m just broken and it’s not getting any better for me I just live with a heart beat but it’s not me , I want my husband
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I’m so sorry for your loss @Wendy_19 . Have you had or thought of some kind of grief counselling or talking to your GP to see if they can get some help for you, take care
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Wendy you are not alone in how you feel. I am only 10 months since my husband died and cannot see a way of life without him. Try and take care of yourself xx
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Im 4 months into losing my beloved husband, we all know how and what you are going through.
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@Wendy_19 when they say time is a healer, it’s just a saying & we all hope for things to get easier, it’s how we get past each day. It’s 5 years for me & whilst the raw pain has subsided it’s been replaced by a constant heartache . We’ve now got 2 grandchildren he’s never met & everyday my heart breaks for the things he’s missing. I lost my Mum just before Christmas & coping without him to support me brings another form of grief. It’s a battle to get through every day. Being still quite young, I get people who think you should be wanting another partner, they usually still have theirs. Thankfully they don’t know that’s the most insensitive thing you could ever say & you wouldn’t wish it upon anyone to lose their partner & soulmate. Sending love & strength to you 
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@AlliH Iv tried the counciling etc it’s ok while your talking away but once you stop it’s back again xx