Lost my Mum last week after spending a great weekend celebrating her birthday. My mum took unwell very quickly and after a short illness passed away! I feel totally numb and feel like its happening to someone else, im emotionally exhausted. Lost my Dad two years ago now i have no parents! Life sucks right now
The exact thing happened to me. First my father, suddenly and unexpectedly, which was a soul crushing loss, then my mother 2 years later after suffering with cancer.
My horizon shifted. I felt old. I felt orphaned. My foundation of unconditional love was gone and would never return. It shattered me.
I am so sorry. Your life will never be the same, I get it. But, I can promise you this: the pain will lessen; the grief will be bearable; and, 18 months from now, you will be in a a different place.
You will make it. It is a fact. It just takes time.
I know how you feel I lost both my parents 9 and a half weeks apart and don’t think I’ll ever get over my grief, I have mental healthbissues the same as my mum had and I’m really struggling to deal with it, like yourself it feels like it not real , like it’s happening to someone else x
Thank you for your kinds words! Im still in shock, just beginning to accept what happened to my dad. Now im back there living in this horrible world of grief!
Im so sorry for your loss!