Its 8 weeks since i lost my partner he had cancer and went very suddenly and unexpected was told he had 2 hours to live so comming to terms with the grief and everything that we went through in 10 months is hard to get my head around even though im back at work i still get very tearing and dont know how to process it all
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I am so sorry , I also lost my partner 8 weeks ago very suddenly we were told he had cancer on the Monday and he died on the Thursday, I have gone back to work and struggle daily with talking to people and trying not to cry , Feel my whole world has fallen apart, and how I keep going. I truly know how hard this is and the pain you are feeling big hug x
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So sorry for your loss i know what you mean he was my world too nothing is the same anymore . The nights are the worst when i shut the curtains and its just me and my thoughts playing on my mind like he should be still here and why can’t they fi d a cure by now as the big c takes a lot of people . He was only 56 so gone far too soon
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I find nights the worst also , my partner was also 56 , we only thought he had a blood clot and then was told it was cancer, not treatable, but he had a heart attack the clot moved, one minute we were talking the next he dropped dead in front of me, it’s all been so fast and can’t even process he had cancer and was not treatable to then having to do CPR etc but he’d gone, left me all alone, we have two adult children , that are also grieving and I’m trying to be brave and supportive but all I really want to do is curl up in a ball, smell he’s clothes and cry.
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I am so sorry that you are going through this.
My husband collapsed and died suddenly and unexpectedly, our son rang me at work and time I got home he was gone. I did CPR as no ambulance as yet. The post mortem said that he had died of a saddle pulmonary embolism and kidney cancer which we didn’t know he had. That was such a shock as working the day before. My husband was 53 years old. Just so unfair and cruel X