He had a heart operation and it wasn’t right after
On Sunday, He went into cardiac arrest at home with my daughter and he died later in hospital with friends and family around him
I don’t want to go into the rights and wrongs of the op as that is being investigated -
I just don’t understand why he had to die - just 36, my daughter and he had such plans for the future together
The worst bit is not being able to take her pain away
Mums are supposed to be able to sort everything out
Dear @MamaBoo
Welcome to the Community. I am sorry for your recent loss and this extends to your daughter also.
To see your child in pain is heartbreaking and not being able to change the circumstances makes it even more painful. When someone so young passes there are always unanswered questions but I hope as family you will get answers from the investigation.
Continue with the love and support as a mum that you are giving to your daughter and take 1 day at a time.
There is a section on this website Sue Ryder containing bereavement information and support which may be of support and help to you.
Please continue to reach out and if you need any further information please email online.community@sueryder.org.
Take Care
Pepsi