My son

[Kelly75]

Hi i lost my darling 28 yr old son on the 21st of june this year and i just cant cope with it. It was so sudden . He complained of his leg burning and he couldn’t keeps his eyes open that was Thursday evening we lost him on Saturday early hours and i just dont know how to go on without him . I keep reading about talking to others thats gone through it but i don’t know anyone who as. I just know i cant live without him it hurts so much. I have 3 other children all grown and there heart-broken same as his dad so i try to hide my pain away but everyday it gets harder and the pain gets worse and worse

[Liin]

I’m so sorry for the loss of your son, such a tragic passing of your boy so young. Allow yourself to grieve and just breathe, there are no words I can express to give you comfort. Although not quite the same I lost my daughter’s partner in March who was only 24 from a tragic car accident. I’ve been supporting my daughter while dealing with grief myself.
Life is so unfair and my heart goes out to you at this heartbreaking time. Sending you prayers and a gentle hug

[Seaneen]

Hello @Kelly75,

I’m so sorry for the loss of your darling son. I can see that @Liin has kindly offered their support, but I just wanted to share this thread from our Losing a child category with you:

My son died aged 33

My wonderful son died at the end of November and we are in bits. He had been suffering from long covid for some months, or so we thought, but we now suspect it might have been heart problems all along. He had chest pain, a persistent cough, night sweats and extreme fatigue. We tried so hard to support him when he was unwell, inviting him to stay in our home, and trying to persuade him to go back to the doctors. It was very difficult to get an appointment and he kept saying the doctors couldn’t d…

It’s one of the many active and supportive threads where you can talk to others who are grieving their children. You are not alone.

You may also want to get in touch with The Compassionate Friends who support families who have lost a child of any age. They have a grief companion scheme where you can get 1-1 support from another bereaved parent. You can call them on 0345 123 2304.

Take good care and keep reaching out,
Seaneen

[Kelly75]

Thankyou both for your kindness and i am sorry for your loss