The my first msg i lost my wife to cancer on 26th november she was looked after at hospice thay wher fantastic. I really miss so much she was the boss in the most perfect way but sitting house alone in house its hard i only have diesel our dog but i have ashes at home now talk to her every night also sound silly but i have pic all over the house i kiss or touch then morning and night im very lost i no i have family around but really want her.back she.new how to calm me down hope this maks sense thank u for reading
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Hi @Dingo2468
Sorry to here of your sad loss of your wife.
It is early days for you and tslking yo pictures ashes is normal.
I have been 6 months since my husband passed unexpectedly aged 63. I still talk to him and always shout when i get home to our house Honey I’m home.
Last year we spent Christmas in Australia with family this year i spend it alone with memories and thoughts of how happy we were then. Strange 6 months later everything changed.
This website is good everyone here is going through the same situations and are here to listen and help.
Look after yourself
Lynne
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So sorry for the loss of your dear wife, it’s early days for you, and it is not silly, I lost my wife in July last year, I have her ashes here and I talk to her every day, some days are good just hang in there
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Thank u for ur kind words my.wife was 59 and next september she be.60 im 46 now im youg but i was so in love we had ups and downs but never ever one but makeing up was the best .i no my wife is with me telling be strong. For family she has to older boy i never had family with her as she could not but i loved her. Brendas youngest son had two grandchildren they very special so i give extra hugs from granny b i promise that pappa james will do the same as she asked dont this sound right its what i feeling sometime i cry or just let.my mind wonder and i did her proud thank u aging to ur msg
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All couples have their difficulties, my wife and I did, but at nighttime we always had a good laugh, when my wife took ill thirty years ago with MS her family cut ties with her, our marriage was hard we lost three children but have two wonderful grown-up daughters and grandchildren, we were nutters with each other, the carers who came towards the end loved the way we were with each other
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Perfect sense. If l go any where and I’m brave enough to have the radio on l ask him to send a sign he’s here. I kiss his pictures all the time x
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Yeah i have raido on i always play four songs me and wife like have a cry .feel bit better we both no thay are whaching as to make sure we safe grife is so hard but we all come together in the group we will get through it and all be stroger together
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