Nearly ten months in

hello Everyone. In two days time it will be 10 months since my beloved fiancé passed away. I am not sure how I expected to feel at this stage. One minute I feel that a lot of time had gone, and in others it feels like yesterday. I know there is no playbook for grief so I am not sure what I expected to feel. Any words of advice or wisdom. Take care x

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I’m afraid I haven’t got any words of wisdom as I’m only just about 5 months in. At this stage I thought it would maybe be getting a little bit easier, but instead I find myself being less in control of my emotions and more likely to burst into tears over little things.
I’m not sure that we can predict how we will feel or be in this journey in the future. I do hope that when I get to 10 months it won’t have continued to get worse.
I do hope you are managing to get some little joy out of life and coping with all the heartache. Look after yourself xx

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