They say take it an hour at a time, it’s so soon everything will be so raw etc.
I get that, this time last week I’d just had the cremation service for the love of my life, so trust me, I get it. I know there’ll be more to come too…
Just an hour at a time, fine, but can anybody know how I’m going to make it through the next ten minutes let alone an hour.
No neighbours, no family, nobody at the end of a phone…
I’m so sorry that you’re hurting so much. I really wish there was something I could say that would make things easier. My husband died 10weeks ago this Sunday, I take each minute as it comes as I can’t look ahead the future without him is too scary. I have found comfort reading posts on this forum. Remember there’s plenty of us here to offer you comfort and support and hopefully we can help you feel that little bit less lonely. Take care, sending love and hugs. J xx
I agree with you Girlnanny, my husband also died 10 weeks tomorrow, and coming on here has given me comfort knowing im not alone, yes I still struggle and i cry all day but on here i can vent
We are here for you. My husband passed a little over 4 months ago. Its still very hard. Everything is overshadowed by his death. I dont cry every day but I do often. I just feel a heavy sadness that comes on me at random times. Im so sorry for your loss and that you have to go through this. This site has helped me feel less alone. Wishing you peace on your grief journey.
So sorry . Please use this site. We all know what you are going through.