I’m struggling with the thought of my future. I had split up with my partner less than 5 months before he died. We were still on good terms and in regular contact. There was some hope on both sides of us getting back together as time went on. I’m finding it hard that those hopes are now gone, along with him. We had spoken about trying for a baby at one point in our relationship. We did know that it possibly wouldn’t happen because I’m in my 40’s but now it’s definite. It would have been nice to explore that. I hadn’t met anyone before him that I wanted to do that with. We said that we’d be happy together even without children. Anyway, I’m just sad. The future has been cut off it seems. My life feels ruined. I miss him dearly.
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Hey @Octopus11
The thought of the future can be really scary without our loved ones and I know I also worry about that a lot.
Trying to just take things one day at a time helps I think - we have no idea what will be in the future and best not to try think about it while we are so sad.
Make sure you are looking after yourself and try get some rest tonight.
Sending a virtual hug and hope for the future xx
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Thank you. Hugs to you too xx
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