Cee
No I didn’t for one moment think you were male bashing and I’m sorry if I appeared to say that.
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Yeh … i think it depends how controlling their wivees are too and what personality they have !!! If they hsve a nice wife youre ok . I wouldve loved a mother in law but she passed away before i met my husband xxx
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Deb5
I think you are right about wives. No 2 and 4 wives are perfect and I couldn’t have chosen better wives for them.
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Yep and my sons wife is so damn controlling ! He has to do everything she says and i have so much trouble with him ! Before he married her he was such a good son who adored his mum ! Xx
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Annaessex
I lost my husband of 40+years 8 months ago.
It’s true no holiday bookings together or theatre trips but before he died he’d booked surprise tickets for Xmas for me to see Michael buble. Days before he died he said when he got out of hospital we were booking a holiday even though we had just come back from holiday.
So even though the last few months have been the hardest of my life I have booked and been on holidays and theatre trips. It’s been harder to do this than to not book and go but I feel these are the things we both loved and I will continue to do in his memory. Yes I still cry when I see couples together or get mad when I hear friends make annoying comments. Recently a friend was complaining to me that her husband never switched his phone on and she was furious. When I replied at least when he does you can talk to him how would you feel if you could never talk to him again? I got a blank state back…
Try and make plans…it will be hard, harder than not making plans but do the things you enjoyed together and take him with you in your heart 
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You know i was just smiling ar your post ! The girl who lives next door to me is always moaning cos her partner works all over the country and so he is only home at weekends ! I just think to myself - oh get over yourself at least hes coming back … !!! They have no idea do they these people !!! Xx
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