Thanks for the kind words. I was honestly left speechless when I first read the replies in here, I was not expecting this level of support. It truly helps, and I appreciate it. The experience of grief can be so isolating, it feels like a wall between me and other people. I am so glad I found this forum, because even though it feels sad so many people can relate, it is also comforting in a strange way to know I’m not alone in this.
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I feel the same way. My only son never mentions his dad who passed away just over 2 years ago. I did mention this to him once and he said he didn’t know what to say about him which really upset me even more as I din’t know what to make of that and was too upset to ask. The only person I can talk about him to is my sister but she lives a long way away so we only speak on the phone. She lost her husband 6 mths ago but seems to have got on with her life already which makes me feel pathetic when i still shed tears every morning when I get up and every evening when I go to bed alone. You can always talk about your boyfriend on this site. Take care
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I still shed tears Everyday since my wife passed it was only in June 24, but I think I will be still doing the same in June 25 and may be even June 26.
I think some people are strong and recover faster and if you recover faster it does not mean you loved the less, I think it means you are more able to let them go.
I know I will in time but when that is remains to be seen
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As time has passed you since your boyfriend has died so seems like on want to mention him anymore and your mutual friends never bring him up. And the family don’t talk about him. So you feel alone in your grief. Just MAKE IT BIT HARDER SO I THINK YOU SHOULD START TO TALK HIM BECAUSE IT HELP YOU THOUGH YOUR JOURNEY THOUGH YOUR GRIEF
Im so sorry. Its unfair and i feel the same. Where are friends and family. . The most important person i.e. you are talking about him and keeping his memory alive and he would be so happy you are