Hi i am now 5 weeks since losing my husband , it seems to be getting harder with every day that passes. I can’t wait for the day to be over so I can go to bed , I just feel like i am existing .
Me too, four weeks for me. I think it’s because I took a while to accept that he isn’t coming back. It’s real, not a nightmare. Now I am just feeling constantly anxious. When I am not wringing my hands and shaking I am usually crying. I really try to get on with stuff but I keep making mistakes, then I am too anxious to try again.
This is pants, isn’t itxc
It’s shocking. I shake constantly … can’t stop thinking about Chris , I cry all the time too
I keep saying I don’t know how many more days I can do without him ! X
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It’s 15 weeks for me today and I remember how I wondered if I could cope in those early days. I still feel the same if I’m honest but there are better days and it’s amazing how you just have to keep going, hour by hour, day by day, week by week.
Life will be completely changed for you and it takes time to accept, adapt and move forward with your grief.
I’m not sure how to do it but being on this site definitely helps make me feel less alone
Make sure you look after yourself and don’t expect too much. Only do what you think you can manage.
Sending strength and hugs xx
Thankyou so much … I mean that x
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Hi @Tde123
So sorry for your loss.
I’m afraid it does get harder before it gets easier.
One day you will realise that you are getting used to it and it will get easier to bear.
The pain and sense of loss will never go away but you will learn to cope.
I’m 17 weeks into this terrible jouney now and, like you, I could never see a way forward.
But you will move forward.
In your own time
You just have to take it one day at a time
Sending big hugs 
x
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Yeah I know … wish I could fast forward everything … I know on time it get easier … only lost my dad last year and mum couple year’s previous…now this x
I’m sorry, thats a hell of a lot of grieving
Sending a big hug x