My darling mam pass on14th August after being in hospital since 23rd July, the lack of support has been shameful (from his part)
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I’m sorry for your loss
Could it be he’s grieving your loss himself? Or maybe he just doesn’t know how to help you.
Is he usually caring?
You will find support and understanding on this forum
It’s helped me through some very dark times
Sending you a big hug
X x
@liro, no he isn’t mourning her loss, far from it!, I did write a longer post giving his heartless examples, but for some reason it didn’t post, not sure how this forum works, it is very hard to try & balance my heartache with his heartlessness xx
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Im so sorry.
Just keep posting
There is always someone ready to listen.
Even at night. A lot of us don’t sleep well
Big hugs
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Hiya Joan. Its so hard when the people you think you will get the support from let you down.
My family are no where to be seen. In 13 weeks of losing my husband I have been told this is my new life and I have to get use to it.
People can be so cold.
Hugs Jo xxx
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Hi Jo.
Haven’t spoken for a while but I do follow you.
You are doing amazing.
I have said before. You are stronger than you think.
Forget people that don’t/won’t help.
You’re doing ok
Love and hugs
Liz x x
Hiya Liro, thank you i don’t feel it believe me.
I still feel like I am struggling everyday.
I do try to do something everyday, some days I manage some days I fail.
Thank you for caring.
Hugs Jo. Xxxx
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Thats exactly it Jo
Some days you manage
Eventually there will be more of managing days.
I’m here for you
I do care
I know you’re going to be ok
Love and hugs
Liz x x
Thank you Liz , it means such alot knowing people care,
I often feel very much alone.
I am so dreading the darker days.
Hugs Jo xxx
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