Here isn’t a dating site BUT! we can’t survive on our own, well we can buy not efficiently. If we suppose to survive on our own then why did God create Eve for Adam ? there has to be a creator, everything is just too perfect on this planet to be random.
I don’t like people who say they happy single hmm if they have kids they not single and 1 day they won’t be happy. I could go into depth how being single has a negative impact on our lives But before thinking about love we need to make friends first.
Not a random meet for activities rather be in my car listening to my music or a scamming dating site with fake profiles or the sending of fake messages. I mean who would use the internet for meet people hmmm scammers! Always trust your gut instinct much better to build friendship over a period of time. iinstead being fleeced by a dating site or a scammer!
Good Luck Everyone, and I hope Wednesday is being kind to you.
@Keith68 I know where you’re coming from.
I absolutely hate being alone, love the fact that I am a free spirit and can do whatever I want to, but I agree that humans are made to be together. I would never go on the Internet to find someone, once your details are on there it is forever, creeps me out. ATM I cannot put myself out there to meet anyone else and TBH I have started thinking that perhaps I will stay alone for the rest of my life… maybe.
In the meantime, enjoy each day as much as possible and interact with as many people as we can.
Yes, and what you don’t achieve 1 day goes onto the next. But make time for down time too. I think support and friendship are the most important things at the moment. If you can share your feelings or how your day has gone then you will feel better for the experience.
you can be surrounded by people and still eb lonely. being on your own is totally different. being on my own means i can do what i want, when i want, i am not beholden to anyone. you make friends when you are young but when you are older you dont make friends and i havent had any for yrs certainly dont bother me
I suppose we are all different all unique in our own way., i hate the lonilness, the quietness, not having someone to share things with. I am not good with just my own company. Hugs Jo xxx
We have to try, even though it be a complex route and is never easy. I think I go against the grain of today’s world, because I’m quite a honest and open person. But obviously it’s all about if you offend someone now online with your comments My mum would say that’s not right, but it’s not a right world no more. It’s a bonkers world!
After reading this thread, I felt compelled to respond. As someone who has been single for a very long time, and who has many friends who are also single (by choice or circumstance) I can personally attest to the fact that not all single folks are lonely and unhappy. It is not being single, but rather the crushing pain of my loss that makes me so sad and lonely for the person I lost. Other than that, I am busy with a fulfilling career, I have just enough very dear and supportive friends, and I could be very social, and always was until losing my beloved Sister (who was also my best friend) I am comfortable with my own company, but also enjoy the company of loved ones, it is a healthy balance. Being single promotes independence, and self resiliancy. I welcome visitors and guests, but I would not want to live with anyone. One can be content to be alone without being lonely. Thank you for considering another viewpoint.
Very true- I lost my husband 18 months ago. I initially thought I was fine lots to do but this year is lonely. Friends drop by but as it suites them. Went shopping with two yesterday cooked a meal for them. Don’t like shopping but was in company. Sons and families gone away together for long bank holiday weekend. My sister suggested online dating but how do you trust people are who they say they are. I don’t want a fling. There are music shows that I want to attend with someone who appreciates same things and build up a friendship. So difficult in rural community. But cup half full person so on with day. Dog walk and gardening.