Had awful last few years lost my wonderful husband in 2019 after 19 days from diagnosis of cancer then pandemic hit us then my mam passed away in 2021 with dementia then my mother-in-law passed away 28 days ago with cancer now sister-in-law passed on Saturday with cancer
Hello @paulmylove, thank you for reaching out. It sounds like you have experienced so much grief and loss, and it is not surprising that you are struggling to cope.
I’m glad that you’ve been able to share how you are feeling here and I hope that you find the community a good source of support. Everyone here has experienced the loss of a loved one and will understand some of what you are going through.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I wanted to share a few resources with you that may help you right now.
Grief Guide self-help platform which has information, resources and advice to help you through your grief: https://griefguide.sueryder.org/
Grief Coach text service, which sends you personalised text support via SMS: https://sueryder.grief.coach/
Our free Online Bereavement Counselling which is held via video chat: https://www.sueryder.org/online-bereavement-counselling
Our Bereavement Information pages which can walk you through what you are going through - https://www.sueryder.org/how-we-can-help/bereavement-information
You don’t have to go through this alone; we are here for you.