Good evening everyone.
Well, today has been a bit of a bugger for everyone it seems.
I am fed up of being made to feel guilty for not ‘getting a new life’. I have got one, it’s one that I didn’t choose, or want. I was very happy with the one I had.
The usual advice to go out, make new friends, join a club, do voluntary work, run away and join the circus, whatever, is not applicable to me, or many others here, for various reasons.
We are doing our best. We are still standing (most of the time).
That’s good enough.
Love and strength to everyone.
Xx
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It certainly has for me,I really couldn’t agree more,if you are of an age and desire to start again that’s fine,and I can only speak for myself,I have reconciled myself to making the best of what I have and trying to push through,on this journey if I can help others I will try to.
Love and comfort to all xx
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Sweetie, this is your new life, they just don’t see the gut-wrenching transformation because it is all inside and it is a horror show. Sadly, this is your new normal for now. You will make it, one day at a time, until your “new normal” becomes normal.
Peace be upon you.
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Yes, it has.
Yesterday, I posted elsewhere, how hard we try, the things we do, the roles and responsibilities we take on, etc.
Someone replied that everyone sees how hard I try to get through this.
That really amazed and annoyed me as I thought that person had a more realistic idea of things.
I then posted that some people see some of the true picture of our lives, some see the full picture (very few) and some see the picture they want to see (usually the one that best suits them).
I think, in some part, that links into what others say.
Thank you for letting me share.
I know you understand.
Love and hugs,
Rose xx