Not sitting with my son

[Mike_k]

My son passed away in November 2023 he was 24. He took his own life and things have never been the same since. We grieve immensely but at the time I decided not to go and sit with him as we wasn’t allowed to actually see him as the injuries were so bad. Because of that I was adamant I didn’t want to go but after all this time I am finding it incredibly hard as to why I

Made that decision. I am really beating

Myself up as I so wish I had just sat and talked. I do all the time and did back then in his room but I just so regret not going and I’m finding that decision harder each day

[Adamh]

Hi Mike,

I’m new here so just getting to grips with things and reading what all are going through.

I can’t start to think of how you’re feeling and what your going through, my heart breaks for you mate.

I also have regrets and “I wish I’dhave done” moments and it really eats me up so I 100% feel you​

The truth is, at the time you made the decision to not see him, it was the right decision at the time for you so don’t forget this, it wasn’t the wrong decision!

If you ever feel the need to chat feel free to message !!

[Mike_k]

Thank you so much I just had a bad day and saw this site but I’m glad I did … thank you