My ex man died a week ago today and he wasn’t found for 2 days, we were in touch and I wanted to talk to him about us, when we were together I was suffering with cptsd and he couldn’t understand me and with my man issues I wouldn’t get him and I went through the therapy and saw him clearly for the great man he was and then I didn’t and won’t ever get the chance, I sit and light a candle on his door step but don’t know what else to do, my insides feel like they have been scooped out and only water is left seeping.
Hi @Woozy2
I can see that you’re new to the community, so I wanted to say that I am so sorry for the loss of your your ex man that brings you here.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I wanted to share a few Sue Ryder resources with you that may help right now.
- Our Grief Guide self-help platform which has information, resources and advice to help you through your grief
- Our Grief Coach text service, which sends you personalised text support via SMS
- Our free Online Bereavement Counselling which is held via video chat
- Our Bereavement Information pages which can walk you through what you are going through.
Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.
Take care,
Kate
Sue Ryder Online Community team
Thank you so so much.
@Woozy2 what a difficult time you’ve had.
Its easy to miss who or whats in front of us sometimes but im sure he can see the candle.
There isn’t anything to do for our loved ones ,other than take care and be kind to ourselves now.
You need to take each day,hour by hour.Distract yourself with tv, music, a book,anything to get you through.
Keep posting on here , sadly we all share this journey.
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Thank you so much, it’s so sad that so many people are in pain and suffering with life and loss.
Yes it’s so sad that so many of us are suffering Unfortunately until it happens to you, you can’t possibly understand the pain.
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