I lost my darling husband in August after 21years of marriage. I can’t stop thinking about him all day and crying all the time I’m so alone now I feel no point in carrying on
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It’s so hard and so painful losing your beloved husband. It will get slightly easier in time (although you won’t believe it now) Do you have good, supportive friends?
You can look on here and enrol for some counselling which will hopefully help you.
Your GPs surgery should have counselling available too.
It’s very hard but hopefully talking to someone can be very helpful.
I do hope you find peace eventually. Grief is a terrible burden but we all understand it.
I am so so sorry for your loss of your husband
As Janey said it does gets easier to cope
But the heartache never leaves you
I loss my husband 3 years ago after 25 lovely years together
I find most days I put on a braves face and try and carry on with my life as best as I can
I will be honest with you some days I just don’t want to get out of bed even after all this time
What’s the point they are not with you to share everything you do
But they wouldn’t want you to be feeling like this
I find I control my grieve by keeping myself busy
I go to work meet friends and family have hobbies anything to stop me thinking about what I have loss
I did have counselling when he died - not sure if helped but it did help me release my angry
Every single one of us on here copes with their grief in their own way
There is definitely no right or wrong answer
Please keep using this site
You are not alone
Sending my love
Xx
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