The ones I have need to take at night x
They say if you can not sleep take in morning xx
How are you doing good i hope. Xx
I am just totally lost no idea what to do
Much the same as you guys, I haven’t returned to work, I can’t sleep, my appetite is terrible, I feel so sad and lost. I don’t like my life at all. Thanks for asking though Dave, hugs x
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It is horrible being like this i can change i am lost x
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Im just waiting for the day now to join him again x
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He would not want to would not just yet
Your man was very young that must have been hard so sorry for your loss x
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That was for jd
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He had just turned 50 in june x
Young man so young so sorry x. Xx
Im like you, I gave up work a week before the funeral, told my boss I dont know how long it would be, as at the moment I’m a mess
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I’m not sure I should be on here as reading of the horrendous neglect some people have faced and the very sudden losses do not actually help me. They only make me feel worse. Ok so I know I’m not the only heartbroken one here but knowing there"s lots of people just as sad doesn,t make me feel any better if anything I feel worse.
John had a kidney removed and went back for scans for years. But if he was there lying on the bed why didn’t they scan his whole body in case cancer had moved. It had and by the time we started noticing changes in him it was too late. His cancer was inoperable. And they gave him 3 months. I wasn’t sure if he had a seizure so he went back into hospital to check. He was due to come back home. Walked us to the door where we said see you tomorrow.During the night he fell and never recovered. We stayed with him all night for a few days then brought him home to die.which he did a couple of days later without waking. Why when they had him on the scanner didn’t they check the rest of his body to see if cancer was still present. Then before it grew too big they could have found it and removed it from his brain. I am not getting used to life without him regardless of what they say. It’s been over 5 months now and I have trouble getting out of bed and even having a wash. Xxx
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So so sorry for your loss, xxxx
He took a few years off to enjoy his time out of the army, said it was a relief not to have to go away anymore and wanted to spend time with me and make up for not being there all those years. He felt guilty for not seeing our kids grow up x
That must have been hard on the kids and a different way for hubby not seeing the kids. Xxx
When they told my husband on 13th November there was nothing they could do, he was told he had a few months left, he passed away 10 days later
My husband 54. It’s heartbreaking, so young. Big hugs x
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Yes thats why he felt guilty, missing birthdays, anniversaries.
The good thing was he was always home for xmas x
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