People lie…
They lie though ignorance and to avoid facing the truth
They say, “time heals”, but they don’t know the truth
NO – it doesn’t. Time makes you understand that they are gone. It doesn’t heal the hurt, loss, despair… pointlessness
They lie because they don’t understand, they haven’t experienced it – that loss, how could they, it hasn’t happened to them
My June passed 3 years ago and I’ve come to realise several things
People don’t know what to say – and I’m guilty of that
People say inappropriate things without realizing it (and it hurts)
People feel uncomfortable with where you are
I’ve also come to realise that I don’t care:
I know there’s a war in eastern Europe
I know there’s strikes in Britain affecting millions of people
I know that there are earthquakes, floods etc in the third world
I know that terrible things are happening on our streets
I don’t care – they don’t compare to what’s happened to me because they don’t affeact me directly. That sound scallous, but guess what … I don’t
My June passed just over 3 years ago. My life ended then although I didn’t realise it then
I’ve learned how to survive – eat, sleep, blah, blah. My life ended with her passing, I now survive
I don’t care for this world – I’m not interested – I don’t listen to the radio, or have the TV on. I listen to music from many years ago. I watch things on the TV that we watched.
I don’t want to be here. I can’t do anything about it because of my daughter, I can’t do that to her.
So, I keep busy, avoiding the thing that consumes me. I’ve met so many people because I do things I wouldn’t be doing if she was here – nice people, but I wish I’d never met them
Sorry, I’m not doing well tonight. If I’ve upset you, that’s not my intention.