I have just found the courage to trawl through family photos over the last three years,my wife was diagnosed with stage four ovarian cancer in April 21, looking at the photos i never really realised the devastation she was going through,in four months she went from an elegant,vibrant attractive woman,to looking thin pale and ravaged,I was with her 24/7 so barely noticed the decline,the constant chemo,blood transfusions,scans,drs appts and a multitude of pills took there toll,together with the other ramifications,she passed on 28th April this year,and now the feeling of guilt has gone up a quite a bit.
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Nothing to feel guilty about Ron. You were by her side every step of the way and you can’t get more supportive than that. That would have meant everything to her. When you see people every hour, every day you don’t notice any changes - you are too close to the situation. x
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Thanks Jody
That means a lot.
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Bless you Ron. You have nothing to feel guilty about you was there when she needed you and gave love and support no one can do anymore. Sorry your dear wife had to go through such a terrible time but with your love would have made it bearable I’m sure. I still get tears in my eyes looking at photos and remembering the good times but thats the price we pay for loving unconditionally. Take care of yourself and be kind to yourself. X
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