Planning for..?

Losing a partner
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I’ve been planning in my mind and thinking of ways my loved one and I can save money and have some trips abroad, where we’d go etc, I found flights, accommodation. And save for a deposit on a house.

I’ve managed to resolve some of the issues we had (which was really not being able to communicate effectively enough) through conversations together in my mind.

I’ve even planned a small simple budget wedding with everything thought about. Where, when, who, how etc… except he’s not here anymore.

I think it makes me feel slightly better, I can think of something else which feels constructive, though it’s not really. :disappointed:

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Hi @Octopus11 ,

Thank you so much for sharing this with the community :blue_heart: I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I just wanted to let you know that you have been heard and you are not alone.

Take good care,
Alex

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@Alex thanks :slight_smile:

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Hey @Octopus11
I think that if it gives you some respite from all the sadness then that’s a good thing.
Sometimes the grief is just too much to bear and we need a break.
Anything that helps is a positive - well almost.
Take care and I hope you get some rest tonight xx

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Thanks @roni52 i will try. I hope you do too x

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